Safe Dating Guide
Advice for staying safe on The Mingle Movement and beyond
Last updated: May 2026
The Mingle Movement is built around live video as a safer first step. You see who you're talking to before meeting in person. This guide gives you practical advice for staying safe at every stage.
1. Before Your First Call
• Complete your profile verification. Every user has completed identity and liveness checks, dramatically reducing fake profiles and impersonation.
• Trust your instincts. If something about a profile feels off, it is completely fine to decline or end a call.
• Keep your personal details private until you are confident. Your contact information is only shared when you explicitly choose to share it during a call.
2. During a Video Call
• You can end the call at any time by simply closing it. You do not need to give a reason.
• If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, threatened, or harassed, use the block & report button immediately.
• Do not share your address, workplace, financial details, or other sensitive personal information.
• Recording a video call without consent may be illegal in your state or territory.
3. Sharing Your Contact Details
• Only share what you are comfortable with the other person having permanently.
• Once shared, you cannot unsend contact information. The other person may save or use it outside the app.
• Consider sharing a messaging app username (e.g. Instagram or WhatsApp) rather than your mobile number as a first step.
• Do not share your home address, workplace, or financial information.
4. Moving to In-Person Dates
• Always meet in a public place — cafe, restaurant, or busy public area.
• Tell a trusted friend or family member where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to be back.
• Organise your own transport so you are not dependent on the other person.
• Keep your phone charged and with you.
• Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe, leave. You do not owe anyone a second date or an explanation.
5. Protecting Yourself from Scams
Romance scams are a serious risk on all dating platforms. Warning signs:
• Strong feelings quickly, then pushing to move conversations off-platform.
• A reason they cannot meet in person (overseas, military, oil rig).
• Requests for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or banking details — even small amounts.
• Stories that keep changing or contain inconsistencies.
• Links to investment platforms, crypto exchanges, or business opportunities.
If any of these happen, stop communicating immediately and report via hello@theminglemovement.com. Do not send money under any circumstances.
6. Protecting Your Privacy
• Review your privacy settings regularly.
• Be cautious about sharing your surname, employer, or suburb early — these can be used to locate you.
• Sharing another person's personal information without consent may be a criminal offence (doxxing).
• Screenshot or save evidence of threatening messages before blocking, in case you need to report to police.
7. LGBTQIA+ Safety
• You control what you share and with whom. You are never obligated to disclose your identity to anyone on the platform.
• QLife offers free, confidential LGBTQIA+ peer support: 1800 184 527, 3pm to midnight daily.
• If you experience targeted abuse related to your identity, report it. This constitutes prohibited conduct under our Terms.
8. If Something Goes Wrong
• Use the in-call or rating-screen block & report button, or email hello@theminglemovement.com.
• Call 000 if you or anyone else is in immediate danger.
• Call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for 24/7 confidential support following sexual assault or violence.
• Visit esafety.gov.au for image-based abuse, online stalking, or adult cyber abuse.
You will never be penalised for making a genuine, good-faith report. See our Safety & Support Resources for the full list.