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Safe Dating Guide

Advice for staying safe on The Mingle Movement and beyond

Last updated: May 2026

The Mingle Movement is built around live video as a safer first step. You see who you're talking to before meeting in person. This guide gives you practical advice for staying safe at every stage.

1. Before Your First Call

Complete your profile verification. Every user has completed identity and liveness checks, dramatically reducing fake profiles and impersonation.

Trust your instincts. If something about a profile feels off, it is completely fine to decline or end a call.

Keep your personal details private until you are confident. Your contact information is only shared when you explicitly choose to share it during a call.

2. During a Video Call

You can end the call at any time by simply closing it. You do not need to give a reason.

If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, threatened, or harassed, use the block & report button immediately.

Do not share your address, workplace, financial details, or other sensitive personal information.

Recording a video call without consent may be illegal in your state or territory.

3. Sharing Your Contact Details

Only share what you are comfortable with the other person having permanently.

Once shared, you cannot unsend contact information. The other person may save or use it outside the app.

Consider sharing a messaging app username (e.g. Instagram or WhatsApp) rather than your mobile number as a first step.

Do not share your home address, workplace, or financial information.

4. Moving to In-Person Dates

Always meet in a public place — cafe, restaurant, or busy public area.

Tell a trusted friend or family member where you are going, who you are meeting, and when you expect to be back.

Organise your own transport so you are not dependent on the other person.

Keep your phone charged and with you.

Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe, leave. You do not owe anyone a second date or an explanation.

5. Protecting Yourself from Scams

Romance scams are a serious risk on all dating platforms. Warning signs:

Strong feelings quickly, then pushing to move conversations off-platform.

A reason they cannot meet in person (overseas, military, oil rig).

Requests for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or banking details — even small amounts.

Stories that keep changing or contain inconsistencies.

Links to investment platforms, crypto exchanges, or business opportunities.

If any of these happen, stop communicating immediately and report via hello@theminglemovement.com. Do not send money under any circumstances.

6. Protecting Your Privacy

Review your privacy settings regularly.

Be cautious about sharing your surname, employer, or suburb early — these can be used to locate you.

Sharing another person's personal information without consent may be a criminal offence (doxxing).

Screenshot or save evidence of threatening messages before blocking, in case you need to report to police.

7. LGBTQIA+ Safety

You control what you share and with whom. You are never obligated to disclose your identity to anyone on the platform.

QLife offers free, confidential LGBTQIA+ peer support: 1800 184 527, 3pm to midnight daily.

If you experience targeted abuse related to your identity, report it. This constitutes prohibited conduct under our Terms.

8. If Something Goes Wrong

Use the in-call or rating-screen block & report button, or email hello@theminglemovement.com.

Call 000 if you or anyone else is in immediate danger.

Call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732) for 24/7 confidential support following sexual assault or violence.

Visit esafety.gov.au for image-based abuse, online stalking, or adult cyber abuse.

You will never be penalised for making a genuine, good-faith report. See our Safety & Support Resources for the full list.

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